This site has been abandoned. I’m no longer writing here.
I’ve decided to leave it up as an archive and make it public again because enough people want access to the content, that it seems better to leave it up than to destroy it.
Please be aware that I no longer believe in many of the views, concepts, and theory expressed on this blog and do not recommend that people take the content they read here as gospel truth. If what I wrote on this blog rings true to you, fine–but please acknowledge the fact that most of this content is outdated and no longer representative of my politics, my analysis of sexuality and relationships, or my understanding thereof.
I will not answer reader questions.
Thank you for taking an interest in my younger self’s thoughts on love, sexuality, and human relationships.